Russian Dating and Marriage – Hitting Reality

December 4, 2011 by · Leave a Comment
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The stories circling through the world regarding the fact that cheap brides and Russian girls can literally be bought from a website can’t be further from the truth. Russia is a proud nation and not all Russian girls are scam artists. In fact the vast majority are really just looking for love, just like any other lady.

Very often, men from western countries and cultures are sent to Russia for business trips. While many others go there because their office has settled in St. Petersburg, Moscow or other cities. These men who have visited or lived in Russia are full of stories concerning the charm and wit of the many beautiful and educated Russian women they have met.

It is true that Russian women are extremely charming and beautiful, but they also know that, in reality, beauty is but skin deep. Many wealthy men approach them, but they know an honest man from the other and they know when a man is only after their looks and when a man is interested in what they really are. If you intend on dating a Russian girl, you should get to know her well.

The three second contract is an exceptionally effective way to date Russian girls.

When you are walking towards her, pretend as if you having an internal dialogue with yourself. Try to look pensive as you are having this internal drama with yourself. You will probably be nervous, but try not to show her this, just keep up your coy exterior. Do this for only 3 seconds.

Then, act like you have made up your mind all of a sudden, go near her and say ‘Privet’. In the Russian language, Privet means hello , and it is a non-offensive and friendly way of starting a conversation with a woman. Your accent will let her know that you are a foreigner and she will take it from there.

The majority of Russians speak at least one foreign language, and if you are lucky, it will be the same language you speak. She would be motivated to listen as she would experience butterflies in the stomach to know that you are an American.

Speak what little Russian you know. This will let her know that you respect her culture. As foreign languages are difficult to understand, you both start off on an even playing field. As Russian women are very friendly, she will probably help you out while speaking. In those three seconds, she would have realised that you are amiable, spontaneous and kind as you tried to speak in Russian. This is just the start you would like towards a great friendship and dating opportunities.

But, this is not always how it turns out. She may be engaged or have other reasons for refusing to chat. The important thing is that you tried and it is important that you do the same when you meet eyes with a woman across the room or the street. Just because one woman said no, do not stop trying.